The Secret to Make Your Ex Return Your Call

The Secret to Make Your Ex Return Your Call

There are no magic words to make your ex call you back. However, there are certain words that will almost spellbound your ex and make them return your call. Do you want to know what those specific words are? I bet, you probably don’t.

Read on because I am about to tell you what you need to say to get your ex to call you back. This is one of the biggest questions that I get so I decided to address it here. If you are trying to save a relationship, then you need to know this.

So the question again is – “How do I get my ex to return my call or text message?”

BUT…

WARNING!

There is a strategy laid out in an ebook I read titled, “Making up,” that I shows the complete strategy layout that gives you step by step instructions.

Using this simple technique explains what you should say and what you shouldn’t say, which will give you a plan for restoring your relationship so that your ex will call you back.

What You Shouldn’t Say!

Let us see first what message you should not leave when calling your ex.

If you ever do any of these things, it will put you in a very insecure position.

You don’t want to “PLEAD” your case, where you message will sound like, “Harry, please, please call me. This is the fourth time that I have called and left you a message and haven’t heard back from you. I really HAVE to talk to you, please!?”

And the EMERGENCY call, which says, “Patty, this is an extreme emergency, please. Call me as soon as you get this message”

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches? So, I won’t go on and on…

Using mere curiosity and self interest as an advantage

Most people are usually curious and think about their self interest. This is not a negative comment, but a reality of the human mind.

Here comes the BIG SECRET!

Combining the curiosity and self interest gives you the recipe to what will work to get your ex to call you.

Now, let’s take a look at what you could say instead that will always work for you.

Use a pleasant tone of voice:

“Hello Harry. This is Carole. I really called just to tell you how much I appreciate all that you did for me. I would prefer to thank you personally; face to face, so can you please give me a quick call?” Do you see the use of BOTH curiosity and self interest?

Harry could NOT resist not calling! He will want to know what he did to deserve this “thank you.” He would be wondering, “What did I do for her to appreciate?” His ego begins to take effect and he feels good about calling her back because there is no pressure.

However, before you make that call and leave that message, you will need to figure out what you are going to say when he calls to show your appreciation. It may be a small thing, but something worthwhile to you.

However, there is one more important thing…..

2nd WARNING!

You MUST HAVE a fundamental approach exactly similar to what is laid out in an ebook I read, “Magic Of Making Up System,” before you even make that call and leave any detailed messages.

If you use these suggestions without having a fundamental approach, and you get a call back to your message, you can do even more DAMAGE to your relationship, if you don’t know EXACTLY how to handle it.

Now, what am I really saying?

It is important what you do before, during and after you get your ex to call back.

Does this make sense?

You MUST have a PLAN!==> a system that will create the magic of making up.

I am rooting for you.

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